My anniversary was this past weekend. I have had many years with my partner – one of the world’s best people. There are people who are given to us in life that have an epic impact on the quality of our lives. They change our perspective about what life is and all that it can … Continue reading
I was listening to the radio today to two announcers who were panicking about how much shopping they had still left to do before Christmas. So how is it that we take great holidays and reduce them to a checklist of things to buy? When we were kids, my dad was insistent that if we were … Continue reading
Okay, here’s the situation. I’m in line at Starbucks (seems I am always here). The two people in front of me are nicely dressed – and seem professional. Then I hear them talk. Complain, complain, complain…about everything – their kids, their jobs, waiting in line, the weather. All this in the couple of minutes it … Continue reading
My birthday is coming up – it is a reminder of how many days I have been fortunate enough to be on the planet. And doing a bit of math, that puts me here for just over 19,000 days. In looking back, there have been so many great days, some average ones and some really … Continue reading
I was in the store the other day watching a heated argument between a husband and a wife who had no problem airing their hurt feelings and anger in public. Watching it was kind of like watching a scary movie – you don’t want to watch but for some reason are compelled to watch. A … Continue reading
I remember back to when my kids played soccer in my town’s youth league. Though we all wanted our kids to play well and make a difference on the team, one parent was obsessed with their daughter being the “best.” This parent moved her daughter to teams she thought would win, paid for personalized coaching, … Continue reading
We are in Sonoma this week, celebrating my partner’s 50th birthday. It has been a week of amazing weather, great wine tasting, slowing things down (just a bit) and appreciating a section of the country that has everything in bloom at this very moment. I see why so many people live here. Sonoma and Napa are world renowned … Continue reading
n my workplace, I notice those who step up and take action, and those that let others solve the problems and add the value. Those that take action go places – they own their progress, success and direction. The others wait for things to happen; they spend their time thinking that they are victims of management or … Continue reading
Okay, maybe not a freak – but you are different and so am I. I was on my way to work today and had to stop at a grocery store to get some things for a lunch and learn session. I saw a heavily tattooed girl, probably 25 years old – with a good collection … Continue reading